Category: personal growth

  • My Unexpected First 72 Hours in Barcelona

    My Unexpected First 72 Hours in Barcelona

    I landed in Barcelona on Thursday at 9:45 a.m., and to say that my first 72 hours were unexpected would be an understatement. On Wednesday at 7:31 p.m. Eastern Time, I boarded what I thought would be the best flight of my life, ready to make my journey across the Atlantic. In January, I splurged…

  • The Things I’m Most Looking Forward to in Barcelona That Aren’t on My Itinerary

    The Things I’m Most Looking Forward to in Barcelona That Aren’t on My Itinerary

    Aside from the wary reaction I get from people when I tell them I am going to Barcelona for a month, their next reaction is usually to tell me how much of Europe I can see. “You should fly to the South of France, Portugal, England or Rome.” “You have so much time to see…

  • The Tiny Luxuries That Make Me Feel Rich

    The Tiny Luxuries That Make Me Feel Rich

    I often say, “I wish I were an heiress,” sometimes to my dad, who responds, “Yeah, me too, kid.” Unfortunately, I am a mere working woman. A one-and-a-half-income household of one. I don’t have a luxurious lifestyle with spa appointments, trips to Alps, lunch at the Polo Club, or staycations at the Chateau Marmont. But…

  • What I Thought Would Make Me Feel Like an Adult (And What Actually Did)

    What I Thought Would Make Me Feel Like an Adult (And What Actually Did)

    As a kid, I loved The Game of Life. It was my second-favorite game—behind Clue! The road to adulthood seemed so straightforward: You went to college, started a fabulous job, got married, bought a Tudor house, had kids, and retired rich at Millionaire Estates. Although I never envisioned myself as a “married in the suburbs…

  • What I am Nervous About Before Going Abroad for a Month

    What I am Nervous About Before Going Abroad for a Month

    When I initially booked my trip in January, I barely told anyone I was going for the first couple months. Partly because this trip feels deeply personal, but also because telling someone you are going on an extended solo trip opens up a floodgate of questions. “Aren’t you scared?” … “You don’t have anyone to…

  • Dressing for the Woman I Want to Be

    Dressing for the Woman I Want to Be

    I’ve always loved shopping, specifically clothes shopping. I remember the excitement of back-to-school clothes, eager to pick out something cute and trendy that would elicit mild envy from my peers. Just kidding — sort of. As an adult, that hasn’t changed. I still feel a thrill, and honestly, a sense of comfort, strolling through a…

  • Why I Am Finally Traveling Abroad Alone

    Why I Am Finally Traveling Abroad Alone

    I have always considered myself someone who travels. I traveled along the Eastern seaboard, from Maine to Florida, as a kid in an RV. I drove from Boston to Los Angeles when I relocated in 2013. I’ve been to Tennessee three different times — once driving from Boston to Manchester for Bonnaroo with four girlfriends…